On anxiety and perfection in writing

On anxiety and perfection in writing

This isn’t the post I set out to write, in fact I had that post all done and ready but as the days turned into weeks, the message I wished to convey seemed to morph with it. I had changed. My mindset had changed too but the words on the page remained the same and so it felt like a great disservice to myself not to speak to what mattered the most to me. I mean, that is why any writer does what they do, to speak to the core of their personhood on topics that matter the most to them.

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What I learnt about making friends as an adult woman

What I learnt about making friends as an adult woman

The first thing I learned about Nimotalai was that she was cool and “I was going to love her [forever]” before we even met in person. Our paths crossed two years ago, when I started working my first job after university; we met during her time working as a lawyer in the international development sector and our connection was almost instantaneous.

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